A Unique Funeral Service

Earlier this year, a close friend of mine passed away. This sweet woman was incredibly unique. Besides adoring vintage clothing, she always had extremely short hair. After her death, her son wanted to plan a funeral service with her unique style in mind. So, he immediately started working with the helpful staff at a respected funeral home in our hometown. After relaying his desires to the professional employees at the funeral home, my friend’s son decided to omit a viewing on the night before the funeral. Instead, he had the funeral home staff bring his mother’s body to the church two hours before the funeral service. He also gave anyone who wanted to speak at the funeral service an opportunity. On this blog, I hope you will discover the wonderful ways the staff at a funeral home can help you plan a unique funeral for a loved one.

Things To Keep In Mind If You Want A Loved One's Headstone Illuminated At Night


When you're figuring out the details for a headstone for a recently deceased loved one, you may be entertaining the idea of having it illuminated at night. Although some cemeteries are closed at dusk, others remain open around the clock, which can make the headstone feel welcoming if you're visiting in the dark. Additionally, you may just like the cozy feeling that you get from seeing the headstone lit up on a gray day. Whatever the case, there are several things that you need to keep in mind as you pursue this idea. Here are some suggestions.

Find A Permanent Solution

Some people may be tempted to look for lighting solutions that are quick and easy. For example, you could visit a garden supply store, buy a few solar-powered light spikes, and stick them into the ground around the headstone. This is generally a poor approach, however. Many cemeteries discourage such steps, as the maintenance staff need to be able to mow the lawn and trim right up to the headstones. Obstacles such as lights of this nature will get in the way and/or may get damaged. It's better to consider a permanent solution for the light.

Buy A Headstone With A Built-In Light

Many headstones are equipped with built-in lights, which may give you the exact solution that you're looking for. There are all sorts of styles to consider. An upward-aiming light on a thick base of a headstone can illuminate the inscription on its face, for example, while a light positioned at the top of the headstone can shine down to brighten the face of the stone and the grass around it. Typically, such a light in connected to one or more solar panels placed on the top of the headstone, and the lights will often have sensors that make them come up at dusk and turn off at dawn.

Consider Some Creativity

You may wish to get creative with the lights on the headstone. One idea is to change the colors of the bulbs to reflect different times of the year. For example, around Christmas, you might wish to replace a white bulb with one that is green or red. Doing so can make the headstone feel a little more festive, and even if you're sad when you pay it a visit, it can bring you a bit of joy to see in looking as though it suits the season. If you plan to go this route, ensure that the headstone you buy offers easy access to the lights so that it's not difficult to change the bulbs.

Reach out to a place like Pemi-Baker Memorials for more headstone suggestions. 


19 January 2018